it takes two to tango...

So we had this interesting conversation one afternoon.

You know how people say that it's the beginning, when the chase is fresh, that you tend to try more? You're interested, and you want it. Shoot, you would do whatever it takes to get it. And once you get it, you either keep trying just as hard in hopes of bettering what you already have.. OR. you stop trying as much as before because you know you've already got what you wanted and you think that there's no way you're gonna lose it...at least, not anytime soon. with as little effort as possible, things remain the way it is; but you don't mind --thats how you want it anyways.

She said-- most of the time, people do latter. It's natural to want the easy way out, where work is kept to the minimum. I understand. Well, I still find that rather unfortunate. But hey, what can I say?